Why Centering You and Decentering Men Is Life-Changing

Why Centering You and Decentering Men Is Life-Changing

As women, we have been taught that we need men to survive, but it's the opposite in today's world.

Finding independence outside of men is liberating. Women tend to let their partner consume their thoughts, daydreams, and life.

This can be scary, especially with age and life experiences teaching us this isn't ideal in a partnership.

Decentering a man means not making him the center of your world, not man-hatred or misandry.

It simply means choosing yourself.

Author's summary: Center yourself for a life change.

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Her Campus Her Campus — 2025-10-21

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